Lack of communication underlies all separations. Although many couples have the feeling that they are communicating things, most of the time they do nothing but talk. Communication means when the two partners report, viscerally, some problems or frustrations that could jeopardize their reaction. Of course, it’s always more convenient and tempting to stand in front of each other and talk about what you’ve done at work, gossiping about friends, or what interesting things you’ve seen lately.
The temptation is great, but don’t do it. Poor communication is what creates that emptiness of feelings that we are convinced we feel for the person next to us: “Does he still love me or do we stay together just because we got used to each other?”
Even in the worst moments, when you feel that everything is collapsing around you, try to communicate honestly. Remember that there was something that brought you together. With a little willpower, clarity and impartiality, you will realize what it was like, what bothered you, and how you need to implement that change in order to continue to enjoy each other.
Couple sex is a very difficult issue to address. There are many cases in which couples no longer feel attracted to each other because things are no longer the same in the bedroom (same positions, the partner does not give you the stimulation you need or has medical problems that can affect the quality of sexual intercourse).
However, he did not regard this as a final and irrevocable sentence. Try to spice up your bedroom life by communicating with each other. You can try erotic accessories to make something boring something extraordinarily exciting. Don’t just stay in the bedroom. Try having sex in other areas of the apartment as well.
If your partner’s health problems are declining, then it’s a good idea to see a specialist. Also, natural therapies based on potency pills can restore her confidence to do more in bed.
To sum up the discussion, the only thing you need to keep in mind is that the problems in your married life will arise at some point, no matter how undesirable this thought may be. However, by adopting the right attitude and communicating, you will be able to get over this moment to enjoy, continuing with each other. Couples are not born overnight, they are the sum of all the things you have both invested in over time.